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The Dependent: A Memoir of Marriage and the Military  (Digital)

The Dependent: A Memoir of Marriage and the Military (Digital)


ISBN: 978-0-9949183-5-2
BISAC: BIO026000
Publication Date: Sept. 30 2016

Print version also available


49th Shelf Most Anticipated Fall 2016 Non Fiction Selection

The Dependent is a true story written by a military wife married to a paratrooper who served in the Canadian Armed Forces for fourteen years before his army career came to a crashing halt—a freak accident near Armed Forces Base Trenton left him paraplegic and their future in shards. Danielle, a fiercely independent university student, meets Steve, an ambitious infantry private. Much of the first years of their marriage are spent apart, as Steve’s infantry unit is sent overseas for duty in Croatia, Bosnia, and Afghanistan. With each tour of duty, the emotional distance between them intensifies. After four tours, Steve finally comes home to stay, but little changes: their marriage remains a difficult ménage-à-trois made up of a man, a woman, and the military. In this deeply candid depiction of their marriage before and after a life-altering trauma, each chapter unveils an intimate portrait of marriage—one in which Danielle and Steve must navigate shifting roles and learn to co-exist in a space where the collateral damage of military service is absolute. The Dependent is a brave and modern love story revealing immeasurable loss and grief and the journey to lasting hope and forgiveness.


Danielle Daniel
Danielle Daniel is the author and illustrator of “Sometimes I Feel Like a Fox,” a finalist for the First Nation Community Reads Literary Award and one of NY Public Library’s most notable books for 2015. Her second children’s book, “Once in a Blue Moon,” is forthcoming fall 2017. Her short stories have been published in Room and Event Magazine. Danielle is currently working on a novel and completing an MFA in Creative Writing through the University of British Columbia. She writes and paints in Sudbury, Ontario where she lives with her husband Steve and their son Owen.